Questions

I have received quite a few emails asking me questions regarding sex. Different things from how to get a man to notice you, how to have successful online/phone sex, to how to cheat on their woman/man and hide the evidence. All kinds of different sexual questions. I wanted to note that I will be answering your emails (topic permitting) as well as posting some of the questions on my blog. I feel that some of the things you all asked are questions floating through minds of so many other people.

So feel free to send me any questions you have or comments you would like to share. Then check back to see if your topic was highlighted for my blog. *smile*


Sandy in Arizona writes:

Lina,
You mention going out late or having evening rendezvous with other men. How did you accomplish this with kids and a family? I have a man at work who keeps asking me out for drinks but keeping it from my husband and getting out of the house seems impossible. Any tips you could pass my way?

Sandy,
You mention work which is a key factor and something you need to play up on. I used to "work late"...yes really really really late. I worked at a hospital that was open 24 hours so it was easy for me to say I was covering someone else's shift. I suggest telling your husband that you have meeting"S" that are going to run late for the rest of this week because of a "whatever you make up" project is due. Say the building is having construction so your meetings are having to be held at a hotel or restaurant if you need to cover your tracks. Say you took up a class on pottery/painting/crafts/self help/being a better woman/karate/self defense so you have an excuse to get out of the house a few nights a week. However, getting out isn't the hard part. Coming home with the receipt, cologne, smell of sex/booze, his or her glove in your car...those things are what you really need to be worried about. Plan your actions carefully or they will end up being your last.